The Return of Lover Boy

The Return of Lover Boy

Countless times forlorn looking women have begged and demanded my time for a sane bit of advice. Should they take back an errant boyfriend or husband, who has wandered, strayed, had quite a rollicking time with a few dozen ’other women‘ and then returned home to a patiently waiting girlfriend or wife after the games have gone against them or have become too demanding on body and purse? What would be the right and wise thing to do? Should they forgive and forget? What would a Wiccan do, these poor women ask?

Ipsita Roy Chakraverti

My dears, I tell them, a Wiccan would not have got herself in that spot in the first place. No man ever strays from a Wiccan woman. A Wiccan woman makes sure of that! But be that as it may, my advice in this case of the deserted wife would be-----do not take him back. Let him suffer and stew. Decide what to do with him in your own time, in your own way. Also to be considered is, has he been up to this kind of philandering very often? 

If you remember, I wrote in my book, ‘Beloved Witch’--
"When you fall once I say it is God’s carelessness. When you fall twice, you should have been more careful. When it happens again, you belong to neither darkness nor light."

So my lovelies, has he made a habit of this? Flirting and sleeping around? And then, he expects you to take him back? Perish the thought. The answer is no. You’ll be much happier and richer without him. Don’t forget the alimony. Don’t be a birdbrain and say you want nothing from him. Ofcourse you do. You want money from the louse, for creating all this heartache and humiliation for you. Pinch him where it hurts.

A faithless husband or boyfriend will never change. It’s in his genes quite likely. It’s a part of his trying to be one up on you. Somewhere he may have a complex that you are much better than him---and in all likelihood you are. Or he may just have a gigantic libido which can’t keep away from women…… in which case the sooner you drop him the better.

In the old days of America, remember the case of the Clintons? Bill, Hillary and Monica? After all that happened and the salacious details, Hillary took Bill back. That was a wrong move. If she had played it smart she would have been the U.S. President today. That would have shown guts.